A Book That Made a Difference

In 1997, don Miguel Ruiz published a little 138-page book called The Four Agreements. I think the first time I heard about it was during an interview Oprah Winfrey was doing with Ellen DeGeneres, and DeGeneres was talking about what an eye-opening book it was for her. I’d see and pass by that book in … Continue reading A Book That Made a Difference

What would you tell your younger self?

If I could travel back in time and talk to my younger self, there are numerous things I would tell her.  These tidbits are in no particular order other than the order they popped up in my brain. ·        Don’t worry about what other people think. Other people are not nearly as interested in you … Continue reading What would you tell your younger self?

Last Time

“Lasts” are often bittersweet. Things like graduations, marriages, and births are often huge moments of celebration at the end of something. They have sadness mixed in because of what’s ended, but that’s expected. Stuff like this is the stuff we see coming. We anticipate it, and we wait for it, and we enjoy it when … Continue reading Last Time

A Thank You Letter

To you-know-who-you-are, I bet you never expected to get a thank you letter from me. After the way you behaved, I never thought I’d write one. It’s been five years now since I learned of your existence, and although I’ll never like or respect you, I have many things to thank you for. Thank you … Continue reading A Thank You Letter

Something to Give Up

Put your damn phone down! Nothing says “I don’t care what you’re saying” more than staring into your phone when someone right in front of you is trying to have a conversation. This is something that’s discussed a lot, but I’m still guilty of doing it, and I see more and more people doing it … Continue reading Something to Give Up

Something to Remember

Today’s news of Kate Spade’s death is hitting me particularly hard. I’ve purchased her lovely items numerous times over the years and have friends who adore her handbags. She was a quirky, original, classy woman who seemed to have everything going for her. She was only 55. I am heartbroken that she’s gone, and I’m … Continue reading Something to Remember