New Year, Same Me

I’ve never really been a New Year’s resolution maker. Not one bit of judgment if that’s your thing; I’m just saying it’s never really been mine. I do sometimes set intentions or pick a word for the year, but this year? Welp. I’ve decided to just give myself permission to continue being the same ol’ … Continue reading New Year, Same Me

The Axe Forgets; The Tree Remembers*

*African proverb My body has often been the object of critique by people who claimed to love me. Never mind being called “thunder thighs” by the little league football players when I was ELEVEN. Never mind the neighbor boy who said, “You’d be really pretty if you lost weight” when I was 15 and weighed … Continue reading The Axe Forgets; The Tree Remembers*

The Passage of Time

My son turns 20 today, so I have successfully mothered two kids through their teen years. Woot! It is bittersweet with a special needs child, however, because even as you see how they’ve grown, you watch their peers continue to surpass them in so many ways. While my peers discuss empty nesting, I discuss special … Continue reading The Passage of Time

The Roundabout

Our dining room window and balcony overlook a very busy roundabout in our neighborhood. The amount of sheer stupidity we see going on out there boggles my mind and honestly scares the living hell outta me. I'd love to continue blaming the Covid isolations of 2020 on this behavior, but I think we're way past … Continue reading The Roundabout